Emotional Intelligence

Emotional Intelligence

Hello Readers , am back with an very important topic which we all need to learn in order to earn name & fame also to be successful. 

In toady's world IQ just consists of 20% where as EQ consists of 80% because yes knowledge matters but more than that is the attitude we possess,if we dont respect others , so we would also get that and no body will except because of just that behavior, so we need to handle our life in order to get success, happiness ,relationship and social life.

 The capacity to be aware of, control, and express one's emotions, and to handle interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically, also its very much important along with our intelligence quotient we need to equally manage our Emotional quotient too as just scoring good marks ,being a topper of school or college , full knowledge of IQ , there are many educated people who are nothing today because somewhere where they lack behind is the way of talking ,the way they communicate and express there emotions is not appropriate, So it basically teaches how to react in what situations and most important  is the manner of behavior we possess. 

Emotions Intelligence have five components that are -

• Self-awareness.
• Self-regulation.
• Motivation.
• Empathy.
• Social skills.

Now I will like to explain you all with an example suppose there are two friends John & Veer and both were preparing for an exam and they want to join one coaching which was to popular as john went to talk with the owner of choching so he said as the vacancy are full, I cannot give you admission so John started showing attitude and said he will close his choching and showed so much of arrogance and left on the same side seeing all the situations Veer went inside and asked for admission & said sir ,you might feel bad how people talk to you and misbehave with you , so he said yes , dear but there are also few like you who talk so politely and with respect, but I dont have vacancy so Veer said no problem so you can take my phone number and call me whenever there is vacancy,so one day one of the student of that coaching left due to his personal reasons , so the teacher called Veer but not to John , friends as the there situations were same but only veer was preferred because of his behavior and emotions he showed.

At last I would like to say “Emotional Intelligence is the key to improving your personal effectiveness. It’s the foundation for dealing with impulses, dealing with stress, and responding versus reacting in a Convey kind of way”

Also I have Included video in my blog which will help you all understand better.